Most marriages crash because they do not have an understanding of what it takes to sustain a marriage. Perhaps, you have been trying some of these methods and you still haven't seen any change in your spouse, I urge you to continue and as well practice other methods as enlisted below. Note that, to become successful in every sphere of life, consistency in whatsoever you have decided to do plays a major role.
- Love your spouse unconditionally
- Whatever good you have in mind to do for him/her, do it without expecting any praise or reciprocation.
- Treat him like a king and he will treat you like a queen and vice versa.
- Shut your eyes and ears to anything that can make you sad about him/her.
- Always
see the good in your spouse and believe that he/she can be better
and turn
out to be the best you ever desire. - If you want partner to do something teach him/her by examples. Let your spouse learn from you, because you know better. For instance, how to be romantic, more loving and caring and how to be a good listener, among others. .
- Pray whenever you think of him/her.
- Remember your spouse loves you, but God loves you more.
- Even when your instinct tells you that your husband/wife is lying to you, trust him/her anyway. But above all, trust God to keep him/her for you, and ask the Lord to give you peace in your heart.
- When you are hurt, open your heart to God. Tell God how you feel and ask Him to settle the dispute in His own way.
- Never release your husband/wife to the devil.
- Whatever happens, never deny him/her sex.
- When things get tougher, pray harder. Pray for your spouse in the morning, afternoon and night.
- For you to get answers to your prayers, keep your vow. Remain faithful to your spouse, never cheat on your spouse, even if you know that he/she is unfaithful.
- Seek wisdom in prayer and in the word of God. Wisdom is the principal thing.
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