"I don't tolerate nonsense. Men should not
be made to think they have any special rights over women. They are to take care
of their wives, protect them, provide for them and even shield them away from
monsters. But when a man becomes a monster, one needs to treat him like one. I
would also give him a dirty slap if that happens. I guess he will learn a
lesson from there that he didn’t marry a fool...” Ebere Favour
“I will just walk away from the scene, and I will
wait for her to apologize when we get home, but she does not, I will ensure
that we don’t communicate with each other until she does the right thing” Julius Edejoro
“I’ll clean my cheeks up, though naturally I
would be angry, and that’s expected of me. But being a gentleman comes with many
sacrifices. For instance, it’s not possible for me to pay her back by landing
my own slap on her cheeks. I’ll get over it, at least while we were still in
the public. It’s when we get home that I may then bother to ask her what went
wrong. Failure to produce an answer and apologise will be too mean of her and
that, I will not take lightly. There are ways to deal with her, but I won’t
disclose much. One of them is to refuse to eat her food and communicate with
her. It’s a painful experience; I can’t retaliate – as a gentleman.” Joe Oladokun
“There is no need to display madness. If he
chooses to descend so low like that, I don’t have to follow suit. Not returning
the slap would pass a stronger message to him- if he is a mature person. In
that kind of scenario, I just need to walk away from the scene and go and sit
quietly somewhere. But if I have the means, I can just go home and relax, while
awaiting his return. If he knows what is good and he’s mature, he will come
home remorseful and on his knees begging me.” Mary Okegbile
“It can only happen when someone is too crude,
because I don’t think any civilized woman will resort to slapping her husband –
even privately – for any reason. It is surely a sickness. Meanwhile, I could
never have opened my mouth to marry such a woman. Assuming it happens, I’ll
immediately leave the scene without her. But if it’s an event or a place that I
need to be around throughout, I would remain there without talking to her. She
should be made to realize and apologize.” Taofeek
Otufowora
“She has to pay for that, right there or when we
return home. I don’t think you have to simply rub your cheeks and let it go...”
Bebe James
Tradition has taught us that marriage is a holy institution set in place by God from the very beginning. Even those who for centuries who have not been religious (as so to speak) have used the marriage ceremony with a minister, priest or pastor to perform the wedding because tradition ruled the day. This has forever been implanted upon minds of men and women the world over as what is proper and right to do. Yet God speaks of something that is far different than what tradition has taught. This has caused religion and those who practice it to come up with every possible reason why God would say such a thing or teach such a thing as to make anyone believe that the tradition that they held could in anywise be anything other than right. But as God spoke about the issue of marriage and its counterpart called divorce, He took the listeners in a direction they had never imagined or desired to know. He took them to the beginning where everything was as God had intended it to be with Him as their God and man as a part of Him. This was the real or true way of living instead of what men had become accustomed to in this world of sin and false authority. But yet even today with this knowledge revealed in God's Word men still cling to tradition and human authority over what God has spoken about the way of men over God's Way.
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DeleteAccording to the law of cause and effect, the Husband must have done something terrible before a wife would hit her husband in the public. Walking away from the scene of incident will be a temporary solution, permanent solution will be at home where both parties have to apologise to each other.
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